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On Becoming Solitary: What Monachos Really Means

If you’re reading this alone, without a spiritual community, without a tradition that holds you, without others who understand your seeking, you might feel like something is wrong. Everyone else seems to have a church, a sangha, a group. You have books and silence. Here’s what the Gospel of Thomas says about that: “Blessed are those who are solitary and superior, for you will find the kingdom; for since you come from it you shall return to it.” (Saying 49) ...

January 31, 2026 · 7 min · Jeremy Matthews